Comparison and Envy

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Hello, everyone, this is Monica Ramirez, Warrior of Love. And we are in Seoul talking away. I wanted to talk to you today about what happens to us when we're comparing ourselves to others. And at the same time, what will happen to us when we're comparing ourselves to others? What do we feel in our body how we feel? How is it is that story that we're we're doing to us. And not only that, and at the same time, what happened when we're ambi other people energetically to us? Well, they start from the beginning. So when we're comparing ourselves to others, it doesn't matter, we're always going to find people that are toddlers, martyr, resilient, younger, you name it, there's always gonna be someone else that is going to be that we're going to feel less. Because when we're comparing to someone else, we're feeling ourselves of a lesser person that we we think we are, what is happening is we're not appreciating the person that we are, we're not accepting the person who we're not honoring ourselves. And that's why we're comparing ourselves to others. And that brings a lot of harm. At the same time, you have observed that I bet many, many of you in certain times of your life, we have comparable sales, I have done it, I used to compare myself with everybody. So why I was going to this serve to have certain causes certain jobs, or certain husband or certain relationship or certain business, because I was lesser than them. And that was in the time that I did not appreciate myself. And I did not honor myself because I was carrying guilt, shame. And of course, I was using blame to others, why I was not gonna do that, why was not gonna have that or achieve that. In a moment, I started learning to love and appreciate myself, and forgive myself for any mistake that I have done in the past. That's how I stopped comparing myself to others. Remember, we are all unique means we don't have to be copy of someone, when we were created in this world, that was not trying to create another human being exactly like you. Even twins, identical twins are different, maybe not physically, completely. But emotionally, mentally, they are spiritually they are have different signatures in each person, they are not the same. So even if the the siblings that they were raising the same family, they are going to be different. Look around you. Everybody's different. Everybody has different goals, missions purpose in life. And that is fine. That is why we have our top brains are completely different than anyone else. Because we're not nature is not trying to make copies of anyone. Try to find and what is your unique way to do something. And that's when you're going to find the magic of being you. So and when we're MB. The second part is the word and being someone again, it goes through the same thing and the same charge. The same charge. Why? Because we're trying to compare again ourselves to someone that's why we're MB. Why they having that car, why they're having that life, why they're enjoying it. If you're not enjoying the life that you have created by your own thoughts and emotions, well change it. We are capable, we're creating through our thoughts and our emotions. Everything that you that you see around you. So if you don't like the life that you're having, you have the right to change. I remember Growing up, they were telling me okay, what do you say you were, you wanted this candy red candy, you can have the blue candy. Now, you have to stick with a red candy because that's the one you say. That applies when there's not enough money in that case with the candies, and they could not buy a blue candy too for you. But that created a kind of a drama, that get us stuck, that we can change what we already chose. But if we're not happy with it, we chose what is going to happen. We can change careers, we can say no more any more to any kind of abuse. And then we start dreaming. How about if I have the life of someone else, and when God has taught me that person. Why because I don't like the life that I have chose. Everybody is leaving by their own choices, we choose we who we are going to marry, we choose the career we're gonna story or we're gonna work, we choose to have the job that we want, we choose everything in a way. Or we let others you don't choose it, someone is going to choose it for you. So as matter of choice, who is going to choose for you the life that you're gonna be leaving. And we can change it. Don't forget that part. Because we are so powerful that we already forgot that we can create the life that actually we want in your life, that job that you're having, start looking for another job. Or you don't like the marriage that you're being in there, and you're suffering and you can fix it. And you've been trying for years and years and years trying to fix it, and you still haven't worked it out. While you're still there as those questions, am I living the life that I want? Instead of me being someone else, instead of dreaming that I'm going to be someone else and comparing myself to others as not preceding the person that I that I am. And that's where it comes. They're all very important as those important questions, because that's what is gonna really create the life and you want to live. I have changed my life in that way. I used to live the life I did not want it. And I am living my dream life now. Why? Because I chose to. I chose to honor and respect myself. And I know more different than you will do it. So do cats, the same opportunities that I have? This is Monica Ramirez worry of love. And thank you for listening. I really appreciate and please, in this help you share it with someone else. You may find that many people around they're not living the life that they that they want. It can be you are there and being you are there and being others or they're comparing themselves all the time. They're not good enough, they're not worthy enough. They're not strong enough. Whatever it is, when they already have it in themselves. You just have to wake up. And so it has to do and will game to have the experience to enjoy life. And as when we're doing in our real heaven. We're enjoying that. And it can be Gee, thank you so much. This is Manny Ramirez. Thank you. Thank you for being the unique you. Let me know in the comments. If you want to your make you unique and honored that.