Channeling Message from Maia

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Hello, everyone. This is Monica Ramirez, Warrior of Love and I would like to talk to you, let me tell you a little bit who I am. I am a transformational belief coach. I work with people to go from victim to empower. I like to work with people transforming the limiting beliefs. So they can create the life that they always dream off in a very creative way, because I am also an artist. And thank you for being here. And for the ones that are gonna see this video in the future. This also apply the theme today the message that I received, that it was important to talk to the collective, and to myself. According to my higher self, it was worthiness. And they have some notes that I wrote here that she's been giving me for this talk. And I believe that is is important about that. Because many of us, our main issue, whether we have it is that we don't feel we're worthy. And we're co creating this life around us. Everything that you see around us, we're creating it ourselves, but with a point of view if we're worthy, or we're not. So first see, took me to the journey. On enemy know how it feels when you don't feel worthy. When you don't feel worthy, it feels constricted, it feels disempower. It feels obscure, it feels empty, it feels that whatever we're dreaming to have, we can have it, that's for someone else, not for us. The problem with this isn't the majority of the cases, it started in our childhood. When our parents are telling us we can have that toy or that candy or whatever we want it. Because many it can be many reasons. But one of the biggest reasons whether they were when she was showing me make herself he was when we were asking for a toy or something like that. And there were parents who do not have the money, or to know what to spend money and hours, or they were having to pay bills or whatever, that endless. Many times when we were little that we were not necessarily in debt, or we did not behave well. Or we did not did this or willing not did that. So we started feeling unworthy. So in that moment, that's when actually it is start creating the belief that we're not worth. And like daddy came along the word lives. When we now we're in adults, and now we're in a relationship and our husband, or our siblings. They're making us feel unworthy. Why? Because we give too much power to the people. People tell us whether we should have or we shouldn't have, when they don't even know who they are. We're giving too much power to other people to tell us what are we just serve or we don't serve. In reality. They don't even know their own worthiness and we start believing them. We start believing because we've ever said that no one can harm you on this, you actually give him permission. But in the moment when you start actually believing in other people's telling you whether you deserve or you don't deserve as when in reality creates a problem with us about feeling worthy. Believe me, I've been there many times. I've been married many times too. And they always chose people that they will not waive really wanted. But I was looking for approval and I did not felt worth it not felt that it can have that man or that job, or that house or that procedure or whatever. I wanted to have, because I did not feel good enough. So you won't actually change that, you can change that. And we're going to be talking about all this limiting beliefs. Because at the end, that's where it creates the feeling unworthy, as limiting beliefs.

We are. Society in reality, they don't believe in themselves. And when you ask him for advice, or actually approval of someone else to tell you whether you can have or whether you should not have, in that moment, you're accepting the release of someone else, limiting beliefs in yourself. The majority of the human beings were in competition, and we there, everybody's in competition, because they don't feel worthy. And because of that, they don't want to feel someone that is more worthy than you. So what they're gonna be doing is trying to make you how, why you want to have that job, if they don't have that job, or why you're gonna have that husband, that perfect costume ceremony, even jokes about this. Why? Because they're not leaving to their higher standards. And the majority of times when we're asking for advice to someone else about it, we should have that job or, or move to that CD or study this career, or having that house or that job. It is, we asked to people that there are very few unworthy. And believe me there, I have seen many competition between even mothers to daughters. And I thought that was not common, but apparently it is pretty common. I'm not gonna say that all mothers compete with their daughters, because then God is not the case. But many, in many cases it is. So that creates also a competition when you ask your parents that those are the ones that should judge you. And what is your are worthy or not, or you can have that or you can earn a job, or that have Hausman or that house or that become intrapreneur, or whatever you want to do whatever your dreams off. Because nobody should tell you whether you can have or you should not. So it makes some points, I wrote some points, that I can help you to shift that mentality, because in the moment, you have an aha moment, and you understand deeper, you amplify your conscious and you change. And you're rewiring your brain in that moment. And my Harrison was helping me to create this talk. Several days when we decide, okay, we're going to have this talk.

And first of all, stop asking opinions of others, you should have this or you should have that. Because in the moment you're asking them about, like I mentioned before, in the moment, you're asking them, if you can have this or you can have that they're gonna tell you about their own experience and about their own limitations, and your Septon as was yours. So stop asking others for your own for their own opinions or approval.

Two. Ask your so why they think they don't deserve it. Ask yourself all the time, why you think you don't deserve it? If that say you're looking for a job, that if I can have that job, and it's a dream job? And you said no, I can't have that job. Ask yourself, why I can have it. Why do I think I don't deserve it? Where did that this mentality come from? What is that those thoughts are coming from, and many times you're gonna find it in your childhood, or it can be from a husband or a mate. Or it can be from a teacher. It can be I remember when the when I was studying with a nonce, I went to a religious school. And they told me it was I was retarded. So I was not gonna be able to do anything with my life. And look, I'm going to be talking in Carver month of July. So if I follow their limitations for their own choices they have the choices was to become nuns. Well, I don't have to follow their own dreams. Because this is my dream. This is my life. So always ask yourself, what where is that limiting belief it is coming from.

Three. Always, stretch yourself a little bit more. Because when you're stretching yourself and getting out of your comfortable zone, you're gonna find this where the magic is the because we carry our Eagle, it was created for all of us, to protect us, it is not our enemy. But they who have their own limitations, that doesn't have to do anything at the same time with us. Even it is part of us, the ego who tell you do some light to go and experience new things, and new ideas and new adventures, because he gets afraid. So he's gonna try to stop you all the time. So in the moment, just stop listening to your ego, and start actually, the analogy comfortable so and stretching yourself a little bit more. That's when you can have new results, because you've been trying to do the same thing over and over and over. And these have not work. Well, maybe you have to try something new. Now the same things that you've been doing forever.

Four, be original. Because in the moment, you become a regional and you're trying to be unique. You're not copying someone, you're not envying anyone, you're not competing with anyone, to just being yourself. So always try to find ways where you can be yourself, then you can be unique do and not trying to compete with anyone. And that is also going to create a worthiness because remember, no one can do the things that you do in the way you do do it. Is it do? So it will even bake up a same cake. All of us, each one of us, and we follow the same recipe is going to taste different from each one of us. So don't try to compete with someone just do it your own unique way.

Five, don't envy others for what they have, or don't compete with others for what are they doing? No one is wearing the shoes of no one else. We in reality, we don't know whether they have pasture to get where they are. And this is this goes. Maybe some people are not gonna like this, I'm gonna say, but many people envy people with a lot of money like Elon Musk, why he's gonna spend all this money in rockets and go to Mars, and so and so when, when there's people hungry here, just but we forget that his money is not the government's money. It is his money that he earned in one way or the other. That's his experience of life. So he can create whatever he's dreamed of, as his dream, why we're gonna envy or compare ourselves with Him. If we want to create our own unique experience of life, we have to stop envy others, and we have to stop comparing ourselves, because there's always gonna be people bigger than us are smarter than us. But this is every experience in life. So we need to stop comparing ourselves to this appearance of authors.

And six, you have to forget what any other authority figures can tell you about as your limitations. Because remember, when we're looking for approval of others, of our ideas, our own dreams, no one is living our dream except for us. No one knows what is in our heart for set for us. No one knows what we're dreaming. Is it for us in the wake? We're dreaming it we can explain it? Yes, but the ones that is feeling it, it is you it is not them. So don't forget about whatever they told you you can do or you should not do. Like I'm Mexican woman living in United States. My first language is Spanish is not even English. And believe me, I have heard many things, you can do this or you can do that because my language or my writing, or I have heard also that like for my family that you can see, you can write, you can dry poetry. Well, because watch my poetry book is coming in the next month, and I am living my dream. I'm talking to you in English. I have a podcast in English and speaking in harmony in English. So if I follow their own limitations, whether they are not they're so afraid to do I will not be doing my dream life. What I have imagined myself because this is my life at the end. So don't be forget about what other people are telling you. I don't care. It was your parents, your siblings, your husband, your teachers, your government, whatever. It is your dream. No one will understand your dream. So for yourself.

Seven don't let all If people tell you what is your worth, remember, they're gonna tell you their own limitations. They don't even know what did they want or who they are, why you're giving them that power over you. You're unique, you're special. So forget about what they're saying about their own limitations.

Eight. And this one is have caused me a lot to learn this one, in my part, celebrate my successes. Why? Because when we becomes grateful for the things that we have, and we celebrate those successes, and it's not easy, or more, when no one celebrated to you want your successes when you were a kid, that was my kids, I hope not many others. But unfortunately, I know they are others like me, that no one celebrated your successes. So it is gonna be very hard when something great is happening to you to believe, Oh, this is for me, I earned this, I want this price. Or I can do this. So celebrate it. Because in that moment, you're making that shift, and you're going to track more of that thing. Putting the moment you are not celebrating and you're not being grateful, how you're going to attract more of the same date to yourself to your life, the one that you're creating right now.

Nine, be proud of you. Because remember, just people that loves you might be proud of you. But the important part of feeling worthy, it is feeling proud of your own self. So when you look at yourself in the mirror, this is an exercise that I'm going to give you that have worked tremendously with me. It is and you look yourself in the mirror, look at your eyes.

And in that moment, when you're looking at your eyes, start asking yourself a certain thing to yourself, I am worthy, I love myself, I am wonderful, I can follow that dream and mentioned the dream. And looking to your eyes. Sometimes at the beginning, it may be a difficult, I'm not gonna deny that when they start calling me a certainly myself, I love you. And looking to my eyes in the mirror. It was difficult, because I did not felt that too. And then when I started feeling it true, because I was saying it to myself in the mirror, I start crying. So this exercise can be a little bit emotional. But I recommend to everybody to do this, because this can rewire your brain. And this is where you want to get those limiting beliefs out of you. Of course, you want to go more deeply, I am a coach, I am a therapist. So we can work with this in one on one or in groups. But you can do this also by yourself to stand up in the mirror and start saying I am worthy of this job, I am worthy of this house, I am worthy of this love, I am worthy of obtaining this point obtaining. I am worthy of having the dream life that you dream. Remember, no one is feeling the dream of your life that you want a safe for you. Everybody have their own dream. So I recommend you to do that. And when we feel guilty and shame, many times, it is very hard for us to feel actually worthy. So when you're feeling the guilt, many times is because everybody's telling you Oh, because you did this and this and this and this wrong, his paternal saying what they have done wrong. And it's not about an argument. It is about why you're accepting that you acted in the moment with information that you had in that moment. So, okay, what do I learn from this mistake that I did? I unresponsible this mistake? What do I learn from this, or else you would tend to repeat the same mistake again. So you don't want to repeat that mistake, you can learn from it. The majority the human means we learn from our mistakes, not from our successes. So it's great actually you you pass through that. Because now you have something that you have learned from and forgive yourself because you're reactive with information that you can in that time I did many mistakes in my life, many but I learned from all of them. And now I'm repeating almost none of the mistakes because I try now to become the observer of my own mistakes. So you don't have to repeat them again.

And when also when you feel shame. When you feel shame, you're not going to feel worthy. And you're going to try to hide yourself from everybody and from yourself, because you're feeling shame. But something that I came to understand, and that's with the help of my higher self. It was when the moment we speak about that, that thing that makes us so ashamed, I would like to shift, because then we don't have to hide it anymore. So if I talk in many of my talks, or any of my, all my content that I write, is about shameful things that I did. Why? Because that actually is gonna create me have less shame, for the things I did. And like, again, just I own my mistakes. I am responsible of each one of them. But at the same time, they were just lessons to make me grow and made me learn. You are important, you always been important. We will come from source will come from the same place. Anywhere here is be quick because we came to do something important and that's just being here makes you being correct, and your worth. So try to find your own voice. Another voice that other people tell you. What is shouldn't be your voice. Find your own voice.

Because you're always going to be important. You're always going to be worth and you don't like the life you're living. You can change it and transform it in the moment you desire. So I hope this help you. He can help me all this lesson. So make it yourself. And these conversations that I have with here, and journaling, believe me, journaling, he always helps me to connect to myself. I hope this helped you. And if this video is helping you. Please share with others it may help someone else.

Thank you very much. This is Monica Ramirez Warrior of Love, and I am here to serve. Thank you.