Womanhood Wonderland - Remastered | LAYC34

Welcome back my friends.

So happy to have you here to help me celebrate the end of summer 2021.

We are just about at the end of the month of August, and to welcome in September...

A new season on the calendar, and a new season in our

lives, as evolutionary women.

We're also here today to celebrate and commemorate...

National Women's Equality Day in the United States.

Today is the day, officially...

The political boys said...

Okay...

You're right.

We'd be better off...

If you all had a say in the laws that govern this country,

and laws that govern your life.

Disturbing for me is to think...

Oh my gosh, it's only just about a hundred years ago, that

women had the right to vote.

So what does that mean?

What does it mean the right to vote?...

It means a great deal for many people...

I'm certainly not a political commentator, but for me...

Equality means economic autonomy.

Economic autonomy that women everywhere in the world should have.

Because it makes sense.

It has been proven, that as women...

When we have the power to be economically autonomous...

Good things happen not only within our own families, but in our communities...

And that radiates out and ripples through countries and continents.

It connects women and people around the world, in a better productive way.

So let's recognize that it's a responsibility and a privilege to vote.

And celebrate together.

To continue our celebration...

We're going to offer to you today, a remastered, rejuvenated

version of episode 4...

Womanhood Wonderland.

I hope you enjoy.

I'll be back with our regular program starting in September.

Hello again, everyone!

Today, I'd like the opportunity to talk with you about a place that you may

have visited, or if you're like me...

I seem to frequent this location a lot...

Coming back again and again...

To revisit the very interesting environment of Womanhood Wonderland.

Yes.

Yes.

It's not just Alice that went to Wonderland.

I do it regularly....

If the truth be told, I bet you, you do as well.

It's the interesting thing about our life as evolutionary women, women who continue

to evolve and transform and grow...

And find ourselves faced with making choices to do, to be, to change things up.

That the landscape, the environment that we are in each time we make a decision

to expand our life and our experience...

Is a wild and wonderful place.

And at some times, it's a weary place...

And other times it's a scary place.

Womanhood Wonderland.

I think back to Lewis Carroll's story with Alice in Wonderland and

really how much I can relate to her as a character and her experiences.

Always throughout my life, I felt like I was falling...

Free, falling into some thing, that was adventurous and scary and unknown.

So very frequently and still to this very day...

That I am not fitting in quite right where I am at the moment.

I'm always being challenged to either shrink or grow, or I'm expanding

to exceed the space that I am in.

That's part of this magic of Womanhood Wonderland that we do.

We morph and change, and alter, all of the time.

If we choose.

Or if we don't choose, then we could sit around like that toadstool and just...

Smoke those hookah pipes.

But...

Really, I feel that the adventure as fearful as it is...

Is a far a better option for me anyway...

Than living a life of safety, contraction, and wondering...

What if?...

I had done that?...

Or tried that?...

Most recently, I have just gone through a brand new experience,

yet again, in my life...

When you thought I couldn't figure out something new to try or, to become.

After all, I am the author of Who Am I Now?...

So that I...

I live up to my book title.

Not to disappoint...

Recently my new experience was...

Learning the online world and terminology, and technology, and lingo of the

online summit, or the summit launch.

Which is a method for reaching more customers with your product or service...

By creating these large summits with speakers...

Could be a couple, could be thousands.

And having them come together with their expertise to speak on your platform.

Well, you know, it all sounds in concept, pretty straightforward.

Just follow the instructions.

But what I have found is that there's a lot that you only

find out by living through it.

Not everything is sequential in process.

And not everything is going to perform the way it's supposed to.

For example...

Just this morning, I was supposed to get an automated sequence of emails

going out to the people on my list...

To let them know that I was going to be hosting a free

Retreat and Mastermind Series.

And I was letting my people know...

Wanting to share a little bit about what that might mean for them...

And to invite them to register, get the zoom link, and show

up and participate live...

As live as we can today on zoom, or watch the replay later.

Well guess what Alice happened...

This very day, when all of that automation was supposed to take place...

My service provider had a major technical failure...

And all of those automations, at least for many clients, did

not happen as they should have.

And in fact, there's still a whole spaghetti mess going on behind the scenes.

Frankly, I just thought...

What can I do?

What can I do about this?...

Except say it's part of the learning process.

I will be adding to my vault of tacit knowledge and wisdom.

What do you do when technology fails you?

How do you...

Go to plan B, C, D, or E?...

And carry on, with a smile, and with confidence...

That you're still giving value in the world.

Just not quite at the time or in the way that you anticipated.

My friend, Jackie Ulmer says life is 50/50...

That things aren't always happening TO you...

Often you can look at the other side of the looking glass...

Dear Alice...

And say, Hmm...

Maybe this is happening FOR me.

So I'm trying very hard to hold on to that positive side, and look at

the reflection that will come from this experience that I will now know.

Oh yeah....

Well, first of all, it doesn't work Isabel...

To always do things at the last minute.

As much as you are a spontaneous lover of life...

And that you are the quintessential quickstart entrepreneur...

Having your system and process set up with a little more slack in the

timeline, is an advisable idea.

Yes dear Alice...

Much like the Queen of Hearts in Alice in Wonderland...

The truth be known this morning I was saying some really bad words about

people out there in the URL land...

And wanted to go...

Off with their heads!

Because they were not letting me get what I needed to get done in

the manner that I wanted to do it.

So what's a girl to do if she doesn't have a rabbit around with the pocket watch...

To keep track of the time that is elapsing while the retreat

that I had planned to host...

Tomorrow morning...

On a global scale...

May now have to be rescheduled...

or I'll just go ahead with the adventure in my own little imagination in my

rabbit hole and things will turn out the way that they were meant to be...

After all...

We never really do know the end of the story...

Until we get to that last page.

Even more reassuring for me, is knowing now...

After living this long in my crazy world...

That I get to write a new chapter...

Every time I want to.

If this first Retreat was much different than I expected...

It's okay...

I'm going to call that my practice retreat, and I get to do a second, and

a third, and a fourth, and a 1001th...

If I choose to do so.

What I can do within my control, is show up for this retreat, with all

of the intention that I first had...

And that is to share as a much of my wisdom and value as I can to my audience.

And really.

that's all we really can ask of ourselves.

Isn't it?

I know it's difficult, as an entrepreneur, as a woman, as a femmepreneur...

We want to be perfect.

We want everything to work out correctly.

But I recently heard a suggestion from another colleague of mine,

an accountability partner in a class that I'm taking...

That it's far better for us to exchange the word perfect for the word excellent,

in our attempt to learn new things.

And so that's what I'm going to do...

This isn't going to be perfect.

I'm sure.

But, it will be excellent to the extent that I deliver enthusiastically,

and stay committed to the original purpose of the event...

And that was to help women entrepreneurs understand truly

why most of us underpay ourselves.

What's the motive behind that?

What's the mindset?

Then to share the strategies and the tools that I have learned, as an

entrepreneur for many, many decades.

I'll make sure that I include the information here with the podcast, on...

Well really...

What happened with that Retreat and where you might find the recording...

So that you can see how Alice did after the tea party...

The recording.

For now, I wish you great adventures, and know that...

You're not the only one that's feeling kind of mad...

When you are trying to accomplish something new.

Do it anyway.

Do it with fear...

And do it with a sense of humor.

There will be a happy ending, I promise you.